Narcissists Create Chaos To Distract From Their Abusive Behavior

Toxic people don’t live in the realm of reality because the reality of their behavior is pretty crappy, which could lead them to crappy consequences. Therefore, they invest a great deal of energy creating distraction from truth. There are many tactics that they use–gaslighting, projection, smearing–but it all comes down to their penchant for chaos. Narcissists create chaos for a very simple reason–to distract you and outside observers from the very simple truth of their abusive behavior. Recognizing this behavior for what it is–manufactured distraction–has been an important step for me in recovering from narcissistic abuse and protecting myself from the narcissist’s / sociopath’s aggression.

The Malignant Narcissist And Their Family

Question: Is there a “typical” relationship between the narcissist and his family? Answer: We are all members of a few families in our lifetime: the one that we are born to and the one(s) that we create. We all transfer hurts, attitudes, fears, hopes and desires – a whole emotional baggage – from the former to the latter. The narcissist is no exception.

20 Tactics That Narcissists, Sociopaths And Psychopaths Use To Manipulate And Silence You

Toxic people such as malignant narcissists, psychopaths and those with antisocial traits engage in maladaptive behaviors in relationships that ultimately exploit, demean and hurt their intimate partners, family members and friends. They use a plethora of diversionary tactics that distort the reality of their victims and deflect responsibility. Although those who are not narcissistic can employ these tactics as well, abusive narcissists use these to an excessive extent in an effort to escape accountability for their actions. Here are the 20 diversionary tactics toxic people use to silence and degrade you.

Narcissists Are Terrified Of The Awakening

Narcissists are afraid, very much afraid of awakened people who know themselves and seek to know the truth. Narcissists, therefore, are terrified of awakened people because they are rescuing victims of narcissistic abuse to stop being used as supplies to narcissists and empowering them to expose narcissists for who they are and for the consequences of what they do. Wakened people are helping victims of narcissistic abuse victims to no longer give in in to fears and to unite against narcissists. The writing’s on the wall. Nothing is going to change until we get together and make the changes and they’re terrified of that.

Narcissist’s Money Lust

We all have some lust in our hearts–for gorgeous clothes, sex, delicious food, exquisite jewelry. Many narcissists are obsessed with money lust. They are thinking about how much money they have, how to get more of it, how to keep it away from others, whom to manipulate to get more, including family members to take theirs. Money is their substitution for love, warmth, affection—for being authentic and human. Having as much money as possible, even stealing it away from family members, is the narcissist’s constant goal.

Why The Narcissist Hates You For Achieving Success

When or if you achieve some level of success in life, whether as big as a prestigious award or as small as a compliment , the narcissist is going to hate you for it. You can bet your money on that one. Obviously, success draws its share of admiration, but it’s guaranteed to rouse some hate as well. So why does the narcissist hate you when are successful? I think there are four basic reasons.